So you want a bed buddy...

You’re horny. It’s a natural human emotion we all have dealt with, some more than others, but the fact still remains that you’re horny. For some, they have the luxury of tapping their significant other on the shoulder and letting them know they need some special attention, but for others, it’s not that easy. So what happens when you want the sex, but not the commitment that comes attached with it? Well, it’s quite simple…. You have two options: 1) Self-gratification or 2) F**k buddies. If you’re tired of getting yourself off, then the latter might be right up your alley. However, one can not go into said territory with greater expectations, or any expectations other than an orgasm, and that isn’t even always a guarantee. So… if your heart gets easily involved, you might want to invest in a sex toy and wait for a stable relationship to come your way. But, if you know all you want is some ass, then buckle up and get ready for a fun and bumpy ride.
The first thing you want to do is find the person(s). Remember, you’re not committed to anyone, so you have the joy of tasting multiple flavors whenever you like. Just be sure that you’re up front and honest with your partners from the beginning and protect yourself. It’s damn near 2010 and there has yet to be a cure for HIV/AIDS and other STIs (sexually transmitted infections), so if you want to taste the rainbow, make sure you sterilize the spoon! Also, it’s very rare for someone to go from bed buddy, to future hubby/wife. Many issues regarding trust seem to arise, and like the old saying goes: “You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife/husband” Now I’m not calling you a whore, what you do as a single person is your business, but there is a difference between the people you date who carry potential, and the people you randomly hook up with. Believe that!
If at some point during your casual encounters you begin to start feeling the person on a more romantic level, you should tell the person. Wait for the response, if they ignore you and stop returning your calls, then you know that isn’t the one for you. Also, if they’re telling you everything you want to hear, it’s possible that they’re full sh*t and feeding you lies just to keep the sex going. This is precisely why you shouldn’t try to date your f**k buddy. Always remember KISS = Keep It Simple Stupid! Don’t complicate an easy going situation, accept it for what it is, which is SEX, and not a LOVE connection!